Hi Jenny, such a beautifully heart-breaking article. Thank you for sharing. I lost my younger sister to cancer (https://medium.com/@mitchstarrr/stuck-in-a-moment-moving-forward-from-grief-29c1f153d064) and the hardest thing I had to do was asking her, “Is there anything you want me to do when you’re gone.” Just saying those words “when you’re gone” was an admission that her time was close to being up. It’s so important that articles like yours create a dialogue about dying. With all good wishes, Mitchell